Breaking the Mold: You are enough
By Sajatha Jaffer
The book is a collection of stories from my life. It inspires the reader to work towards being their authentic true self, to find acceptance and strength to work through anything life throws at you.
The book,
Is about acknowledging, accepting, and facing adversities of life and loving life as it comes.
Is about fear and being scared out of your mind and yet showing up.
Is about finding strength and bravery and courage to stand up and live a life of your choice even when you are lost in an abyss of self-doubt.
Through the book, I am trying to convey that we all have inner strength and we can discover it to lead a more full filling life.
The book is intended to give hope and serve as a companion in your journey to healing, find hope and your own happiness.
This book is about self-acknowledgment, self-acceptance and living your truth. Unapologetically!
With the book, I hope to Empower others to take charge of their lives and find their authentic voice and travel their path to self-discovery.
Raw and Honest - Kirkus Review
The Art of Not Giving Everything Away
The Art of Not Giving Everything Away is a book for anyone who has spent years bleeding themselves dry in the name of love, loyalty, or survival — and finally reached the point where something had to change.
This is not a manifesto about being cold or selfish.
It’s a book about boundaries born from exhaustion.
About learning to stop offering parts of yourself to people who only know how to take.
About reclaiming the pieces you handed out because you didn’t know you were allowed to keep them.
These pages ask the questions most of us avoid:
Why do we give more than we have?
Why do we stay loyal to people who would never do the same?
Why do we carry guilt for choosing ourselves?
Why is it so hard to stop trying to be “enough” for everyone?
Through sharp reflections and lived truth, this book offers something rare:
not advice, not positivity — clarity.
A way of seeing your own patterns without shame.
A reminder that giving everything is not love; it’s self-erasure.
If you’re tired of being drained, overlooked, overworked, or emotionally overdrawn, this book will meet you exactly where you are — without judgment, without sugar, and without the pressure to “fix” your life overnight.
This is the art of keeping what’s yours.
And learning that you deserve to.
Fucking 45
Forty-five is not a crisis.
It’s a reckoning.
And this book is what happens when a woman finally stops pretending she’s fine, stops apologizing for the life that chewed her up, and tells the truth about what it costs to keep going.
Fucking 45 is not a memoir wrapped in sentiment.
It’s not a motivational speech.
It’s the raw, unfiltered reality of a woman who hit the middle of her life with nothing left to hide — not the rage, not the grief, not the exhaustion, not the quiet joy that still survived underneath all of it.
These pages hold the things women are trained not to say:
that aging is a shock to the body,
that motherhood is relentless,
that loneliness bites deeper at midlife,
that survival comes with a bill you can’t ignore forever,
and that there’s a strange and fierce beauty in rebuilding yourself from the wreckage.
This is the decade where everything you’ve been carrying finally demands to be named.
It’s the decade where you stop giving a damn about performing a life for others and start fighting for one that feels like your own.
Fucking 45 is loud, quiet, ugly, brave, angry, tender, and honest — exactly like the woman who survives it.
If you’ve ever looked at your life and thought,
This is not where I imagined I’d be,
This book will meet you there — without judgment, without sugar, and without pretending that midlife is some spiritual glow-up.
It’s not.
It’s survival with teeth.
And somehow, it’s still worth it.